April is
Sexual Assault

Awareness Month

3 women are murdered by an intimate partner every day in America!
4.8 million American women are physically assaulted every year!

Violence against women has long been a widespread but little known epidemic affecting local, national and international communities alike. But now people like you and me are speaking out about this serious issue, and by raising awareness, are helping to stop violence against women.

To help states, municipalities, agencies and individuals further the goals of the Violence Against Women Act, the US Department of Justice's Office of Violence Against Women has worked with Congress and the President to establish months designated to raise awareness about the four crimes included in the bill: January is Stalking Awareness Month; February is Dating Violence Awareness & Prevention Month; April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month; and October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.

Domestic Violence Awareness Month has been observed nationally for years, but this year's Senate Resolution for Teen Dating Violence Awareness & Prevention Month, and the widespread observance by states and municipalities has helped raise attention about violence against women to a whole new level. At least 27 Governors and over 200 municipalities in 45 states declared proclamations and resolutions for February's Dating Violence Awareness Month, providing inspiration and opportunities for bringing communities together to address this serious issue.

Now, as a nation, we have an opportunity to continue momentum with April's Sexual Assault Awareness Month. Last year, President Obama issued a Presidential Proclamation for Sexual Assault Awareness Month for the very first time, and because of recent attention on the issue by the media, government and civil society, and with your help, national, state and local participation will be even greater this year.

I learned about violence against women the hard way - my 19 year old daughter Emily was murdered by her ex-boyfriend on April 9, 2009. Please help lead the way to ending violence against women by raising YOUR voice against violence against women.

This April, there are many things that YOU can do to help raise awareness about dating abuse and sexual violence. Here are some ideas:

1) Write to your Mayor and Governor and ask them to join other leaders across the nation in declaring April as Sexual Assault Awareness Month. In most cases, all it takes is a school or nonprofit organization to request it and provide a sample proclamation! (Please ask them to send a copy to The EMILY Fund, PO Box 430, Roosevelt, NJ 08555-0430, or send a scan to info@emilyfund.org or fax to: 1-888-247-1291 so that it can be posted on the Internet to inspire other communities to do the same.)

2) Ask your school administrator to declare a proclamation for Sexual Assault Awareness Month (Check out the Sexual Assault Resource Center for sample proclamation, step-by-step instructions, and lots of resources for raising awareness.)

3) If your town or state has declared a proclamation, let your local newspaper know about it and why dating violence awareness is important.

3) Wear a teal ribbon (the official color of sexual assault awareness) or a heart on your sleeve (print out free designs at the Have a Heart Campaign website) and when people ask you about it, let them know why violence against women awareness is important to you.

4) Create or print out posters about ending violence against women to display at school or around your community.

5) Participate in the National Dating Pledge Challenge to Stop Dating Violence - hand out FREE Dating Pledge cards.

6) Set up a table on campus or during lunch to hand out Dating Pledge cards and other educational materials about dating abuse and dating violence.

7) Urge your school to establish a Dating Violence Policy if there isn't one already in place.

8) Urge your school to establish a year-round Dating Violence Awareness education program.

9) Find out more about the Lindsay Ann Burke Act requiring schools to provide dating violence awareness resources to all students. 6 states have already passed bills - has yours?

10) Participate in a Healthy Relationship Peer Education Program, or if there isn't one at your school, work with your school or a local domestic violence agency to establish one.

11) Find out more:

National Sexual Violence Resource Center's Sexual Assault Awareness Month page

US Dept of Justice's Office of Violence Against Women

US Dept of Defense's Sexual Assault Awareness Month page

National Youth Violence Prevention Resource Center's page

California Coalition Against Sexual Assault's SAAM page

Change.org's page

Wisconsin Coalition Against Sexual Assault's page


Printable PDF Handout

Sample Proclamation:

WHEREAS, sexual assault affects women, children and men of all racial, cultural and economic backgrounds; and

WHEREAS, in addition to the immediate physical and emotional costs, sexual assault may also have associated consequences of post-traumatic stress disorder, substance abuse, depression, homelessness, eating disorders and suicide; and

WHEREAS, sexual assault can be devastating for not only the survivor, but also for the family and friends of the survivor; and

WHEREAS, no one person, organization, agency or community can eliminate sexual assault on their own, but we can work together to educate our entire population about what can be done to prevent sexual assault, support victim/survivors and their significant others, and increase support for agencies providing services to victim/survivors; and

WHEREAS, Sexual Assault Awareness Month provides an excellent opportunity for citizens to learn more about preventing sexual violence;

NOW THEREFORE be it, Resolved, That I, _______________, do hereby proclaim the month of April, 2010, as Sexual Assault Awareness Month in _________.

Please send a copy of your Mayor or Governor's proclamation to
StopDatingViolence.org - The EMILY Fund
PO Box 430, Roosevelt, NJ 08555-0430
or send a scan to:
info@emilyfund.org or Fax to 1-888-247-1291

 

IMPORTANT PHONE NUMBERS

NATIONAL TEEN DATING ABUSE HELPLINE
1-866-331-9474

The National Domestic Violence Hotline
800-799-SAFE (7233) and 800-787-3224 (TTY).

The National Sexual Assault Hotline
800-656-4673

 

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PROCLAMATIONS
& RESOLUTIONS

Sample
Proclamation

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Proclamations

ALABAMA
- Governor -
Tuscaloosa

ARIZONA
Winslow

ARKANSAS
Warren

CALIFORNIA
Buena Park
Canyon Lake
Chino Hills
Diamond Bar
Fairfield
Fontana
Indian Wells
Pacifica
Palmdale
Pomona
Sand City
San Jacinto
Santa Cruz
Vacaville
Watsonville

COLORADO
- Governor -
Brighton
Centennial
Fort Collins
Granby
Grand Junction
Pueblo
Trinidad
Yuma

CONNECTICUT
- Governor -
Manchester
Oxford
Seymour
Sterling
Windsor Locks

DELAWARE
Wilmington

FLORIDA
Belle Glade
Callaway
Davenport
Deerfield Beach
Dunedin
Frostproof
Gainesville
Haines City
Hastings
Lakeland
Lake Wales
Largo
Longwood
Melbourne Beach
Melbourne Village
Niceville
North Palm Beach
Okeechobee
Ormond Beach
Palm Bay
Pinellas Park
Pismo Beach
Plant City
Safety Harbor
South Daytona
South Pasadena
St. Augustine
St. Cloud
Tampa
Waldo
West Palm Beach

ILLINOIS
- Governor -

INDIANA
Bedford
Ellettsville
Fort Wayne
Mishawaka
Richmond

IOWA
- Governor -
Camanche

Creston

KENTUCKY
Louisville

MAINE
- Governor -
Freeport
Hallowell
Leeds
Long Island
Madawaska
Poland
Portland
Scarborough
Southwest Harbor

MARYLAND
- Governor -

MASSACHUSETTS
Hull
Norton
Rowley

MICHIGAN
- Governor -
Alpena Township
Argentine Township
Clawson
Clio
Dearborn Heights
Frenchtown Twp
Gaines
Hastings
Inkster
Kalamazoo
Lansing
Lapeer
Mount Clemens
Niles
Orion Township
Riverview
Ross Township
Saline
Tecumseh
Vienna
Walled Lake
Ypsilanti

MISSISSIPPI
Poplarville

MONTANA
- Governor -
Belgrade

NEVADA
Yerington

NEW HAMPSHIRE
Seabrook

NEW JERSEY
Bordentown
Burlington
Clark
Closter
Eatontown
Fair Haven
Howell Township
Little Ferry
Millville
Morristown
New Milford
North Haledon
Ocean Township
Pleasantville
Roxbury
Shamong Township
Somers Point
Vineland

NEW MEXICO
- Governor -
Estancia
Mesilla
Santa Clara
Taos

NEW YORK
- Governor -

NORTH CAROLINA
Clyde

OHIO
Lorain
Shelby
Wickliffe

OREGON
- Governor -
Ashland
Brookings
Depoe Bay
Gold Beach
Medford

RHODE ISLAND
Richmond
South Kingstown
Warwick

SOUTH CAROLINA
- Governor -
Duncan
Greenville
Greenwood
Greer
Hartsville
Mount Pleasant

SOUTH DAKOTA
Rapid City

TENNESSEE
Montgomery County
Shelby County

TEXAS
Bonham
Carthage
Commerce
Crockett
Decatur
Denison
Donna
Duncanville
Falfurrias

UTAH
Midway

VIRGINIA
- Governor -
Dumfries
Fairfax
Fredericksburg

WASHINGTON
- Governor -
Aberdeen
Bothell
Colville
Everett
Lakewood
Monroe
Newport
Omak
Port Orchard
Raymond
Sammamish
Sedro-Woolley
Snoqualmie
Spokane Valley
Sunnyside

WEST VIRGINIA
- Governor -
Milton
Summersville

WYOMING
- Governor -
Big Piney
Big Piney 2011
Marbleton
Marbleton 2011
Pinedale
Pinedale
2011
Sublette County
2011

 

OVER 200
MUNICIPALITIES
and
25 GOVERNORS
declared
proclamations & resolutions
for Dating Violence Awareness & Prevention Month in February

October is
Domestic Violence Awareness Month


 

 

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